Showing posts with label breastfeeding. Show all posts
Showing posts with label breastfeeding. Show all posts

Tuesday, July 6, 2010

Random links & strong feelings

I'm thoroughly disgusted by this...
Blogher.com article: "Does Breastfeeding Cause Divorce?"
I'm just so outraged about it I don't even know what to say, so I'll let you all read it for yourselves.

and thrilled by this...
Recipe for Parisian bagels
I made these bagels today (I added dried onion flakes) & they're delicious. I tried one this afternoon & it's taking all my willpower not to go in the kitchen & eat the remaining nine.

Wednesday, June 17, 2009

Breastfeeding Promotion Act

The Breastfeeding Promotion Act has been introduced in Congress! Click here to learn more about it & then click on the link to tell Congress to support the Act - it takes less than 5 minutes!

Tuesday, June 9, 2009

We have a weaner!

Yep, it's true.. Cooper is weaned.
People assure you that no child is still nursing when they get to college, but with Cooper I wasn't so sure about that. From the time he was an infant he wanted to nurse constantly and for at least an hour at a time most of the time. So imagine my shock when he stopped almost cold turkey.
A little over a month ago he was sick & congested. He nursed for a few seconds, then stopped. Started again, then stopped. I assumed he was having trouble breathing while nursing. He eventually just laid his head down on the pillow & fell asleep. For the next several days he would ask to nurse, but then cry or just sign "finished" when he was given the chance. I finally stopped offering and he stopped asking.
I had (have) really mixed feelings about him weaning. I always wanted to nurse him until he self-weaned. When I got pregnant, I wasn't so sure about that anymore. The thought of a newborn needing to be nursed constantly around the clock, plus a toddler was a little overwhelming. I cut Cooper back to just before nap-time & before bedtime. It was really difficult for the first week or so, but then he seemed satisfied with it. But then he did stop, & I didn't even realize it was happening. I thought he was not feeling well & would come back to nursing when he wasn't congested, but suddenly it was just over.
He did ask to nurse again one more time about a week after I had last offered. I was happy to oblige, but when he got close he just blew a raspberry in disgust and turned away. I think the pregnancy has affected the taste or smell or something and he's just not interested anymore.
I know it's probably for the best, but it still makes me sad.

In sibling news, we have a... well, I just let you see for yourself. There's no doubt - it's a boy.


Monday, February 16, 2009

Salma Hayek rocks

I've never been a huge Salma Hayek fan, but this totally changed my mind. Maybe I'm a bigger fan of Salma Hayek than Drew Barrymore now. Yeah, you read that right, I think I like her more than Drew now. Finally, an actress doing something useful with her body & sending such a great message to the world. I love it.

Monday, December 1, 2008

Letter to President-Elect Barack Obama

Ask President-Elect Barack Obama to make breastfeeding a high priority in his administration!
www.usbreastfeeding.org/obam
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Dear President-Elect Obama:

There is virtually universal agreement among health care experts that, with rare exceptions, breastfeeding is the optimal method of feeding all infants, sick as well as healthy, preterm as well as full term. In addition to the myriad health benefits provided to mother and infant, breastfeeding provides significant economic and environmental benefits for families, employers, and society by reducing health care expenses, eliminating the need to purchase expensive formula, and reducing absenteeism from work to care for sick infants. Excess health care costs totaling more than $4 billion must be paid by the U.S. health care system each year to treat otitis media, gastroenteritis, and necrotizing enterocolitis--childhood diseases and conditions preventable or reduced by breastfeeding. When prevention of obesity, diabetes, and other chronic conditions is factored in, the potential economic benefits of breastfeeding are significantly greater.

Given all of these benefits, the United States Breastfeeding Committee joins the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services in recommending that infants be exclusively breastfed for six months, and continue to breastfeed for the first year of life and as long afterward as mutually desired by the mother and infant. Yet only a handful of states are currently meeting the federal government’s own Healthy People 2010 breastfeeding targets. Additionally, significant disparities in breastfeeding continue to exist, with non-Hispanic black and socioeconomically disadvantaged groups experiencing lower breastfeeding rates.

Obviously, more needs to be done to ensure the achievement of our national breastfeeding goals and to create an environment where women and their families can be successful in achieving their personal breastfeeding goals. You have the power to take immediate and concrete action to improve the Nation’s health by protecting, promoting, and supporting breastfeeding. We urge you to use your position of leadership and power to set the tone in the federal government to place a high priority on breastfeeding as an essential public health issue.

Please take the following actions to protect, promote, and support breastfeeding, the foundation of lifelong health:

1. Instruct the Surgeon General to issue a statement in support of breastfeeding urging all sectors (governmental and non-governmental) involved in supporting women, children, and families to improve their breastfeeding policies.
2. Enact a national paid family leave policy.
3. Endorse the World Health Organization’s International Code of Marketing of Breastmilk Substitutes as well as the Global Strategy for Infant & Young Child Feeding.
4. Ask the Federal Trade Commission to monitor infant formula marketing.
5. Ask the Food and Drug Administration to include labeling on powdered infant formula warning that it is not sterile and providing instructions on how to properly reconstitute it.
6. Highlight the benefits for employers of workplace breastfeeding support programs as part of your program to promote flexible work arrangements.
7. Urge all insurers to cover lactation care and support services.
8. Approve an increase in breastfeeding support funds for the USDA’s Special Supplemental Nutrition Program for Women, Infants and Children (WIC), especially to support the peer counseling program.
9. Instruct the Secretary of Health and Human Services to recommend that all hospitals achieve the Baby-Friendly designation.
10. Ensure that emergency management agencies are trained in breastfeeding support and have breastfeeding supply kits available for distribution in emergencies.

Thank you!
Sarah

Monday, November 24, 2008

Woo hoo breastfeeding!!!

My wedding dress fits! I love breastfeeding! Yeah, yeah, I loved it before 'cause it's all healthy & everything, but this is so cool! I gained some weight I got married 7 years ago & I was up to a size 16 before I got pregnant. Then I gained more than 50 pounds (I know, it's ridiculous) while I was pregnant. Yuk. But now I'm down to a size 6 (sometimes an 8 depending on the brand)!!! Woo hoo! And no dieting & no exercising, except for chasing a one-year-old, just breastfeeding. I may have to force Cooper to continue breastfeeding 'til college at least :)
(My dress has a big stain in the front :( That's what I get for not having it professionally cleaned & stored I guess.)

Monday, September 22, 2008

Boobs

My mom discovered this wonderful blog, Booblog, & sent me the link.
From there I was led to a wonderful letter to boobs! I love it:

Dear boobs:

I feel like I should take this chance to tell you that I appreciate all you’ve done for me in terms of feeding my children. When I’m not pregnant or nursing…let’s face it…you kinda suck. You are droopy and too small for my taste. I had to have b-cup padding inserted into my wedding dress because I didn’t want to get married with A-Cup boobs! How sad is that?

But when I’m pregnant? You grow to a size I can be proud of! You give me CLEAVAGE! Which I love sooooo much. Of course, with the cleavage come the boobsweat. But I’ve learned to live with that. Having cleavage is just that awesome. And when the babies come? You provide nourishment as well as can be expected. We’ve had our problems because you don’t like to work too hard. But that has it’s perks too as you don’t leak! Yay for non-leaking boobs!

Anyway. I feel this may be our last run together as I’m not sure if anymore children are in our future. In four weeks you will start producing milk for what will probably be my last child and I just wanted to boost your ego a little before you step up to the plate this last time. You’ve both been great and have served your purpose well. I’ll be sad to see you shrink back to the nothings you were before, when the nursing of AndyZ is done. But - I’m thrilled that you’ve performed to the level you have. I could not be more proud of you.

Love, Zoot

You can read the whole blog post here.

Friday, August 1, 2008

Weirdest breastfeeding experience ever

Two months ago Cooper had just started really eating solid food & started nursing less often. My milk supply took a while to catch up to the change & I wound up getting a really bad clogged duct. The clog was very close to my nipple & the whole side of my breast felt like a rock from my nipple almost to my armpit. It was pretty awful & Cooper worked & worked at it & then started refusing to nurse on that side. He's never refused to nurse & I'm pretty sure he wasn't getting anything, or was getting very little. It seemed to be getting worse & worse & I got a fever. In the middle of the night I became convinced that it was not going to get better & I'd have to have it dealt with surgically or something (yeah, I get a little dramatic in the middle of the night when I'm not feeling well & deprived of sleep; things always seem a little better the next morning).
Anyway, I finally got Cooper back on the job, & I pumped to try to dislodge the clog too. While I was pumping, a milk blister appeared. The clog eventually improved; it came & went for a couple weeks, but eventually it was gone completely. But the milk blister stayed.
I tried everything - a warm compress before nursing, olive oil on a cotton ball in my bra, antibiotic ointment, & eventually oral antibiotics. Everything seemed to help & the blister would disappear for a few hours or a day, but then come right back. There were even several times when I would see breastmilk coming from the blister (sometimes when Cooper was nursing, or when I expressed afterward, and it even leaked a couple times). Once there was even a touch of blood. Every time I'd see milk, or the blister would seem to disappear I'd be relieved, but then it would be right there again. That went on for at least two months.
Then one day I was nursing Cooper on that side & I suddenly felt light-headed. It came on very suddenly & I immediately thought I must be dehydrated. I was afraid for a couple seconds that it might lead to me fainting, but after 30 seconds the feeling just disappeared & I felt fine. Then I got a sharp pain in the nipple & Cooper pulled off. I saw milk & a little blood coming from the blister & it hurt a lot. Cooper went back to nursing again for a few minutes & then was done. I thought it was really odd & wondered if the light-headed feeling was somehow related to the blister. It seems kind of crazy that it would be, but the timing made me think they must be related. Then a couple days later the blister was gone. Just gone. And it hasn't come back. I can't even tell where it was.
Very odd, but I'm relieved that it's gone.

Wednesday, July 23, 2008

Back to the doctor..

..but this time was just a well visit. We had Cooper's 9 month appointment (I can't believe he's 9 months already!) on Monday. The appointment went well; at 6 months Cooper was in the 95th percentile for height & weight & his big head was off the charts, but now he's about 75th for weight & head & his height is about 50th. He's doing everything he's supposed to do, & the doctor thinks he'll be walking soon - YIKES! She also confirmed that he's getting his 9th tooth! I mentioned to the doctor that I'm reading about immunizations & trying to decide what to do, but that I think I'd like to delay some. She was completely fine with that & said I could even separate some of the combined shots (like MMR) if I want.
This new pediatrician is so much better than the old one. The old office claimed to be breastfeeding friendly, but when Cooper had the stomach flu & was throwing up they told me to stop breastfeeding & just give him Pedialyte; they said "dairy" was to hard to digest & he needed only clear liquids until his stomach was better. Of course, I ignored them & Cooper was better the next day. They also kept telling me to let Cooper cry at night, turn off the monitor & sleep in the furthest bedroom from him until he learned how to sleep through the night. I'm so glad we switched. But (I should have expected this!), I think the new pediatrician is pregnant! She wasn't showing enough that I could say something, but I kept sneaking looks at her belly & I'm pretty sure she is so hopefully the other pediatricians at the new office are as good as she is.
We also had a La Leche League meeting Monday. I love La Leche League; all the moms are so supportive & I feel much more comfortable with their parenting ideas than most other parents I meet. We had lunch with John at work too, since the doctor is near the courthouse. I love surprising Cooper with a visit with dad in the middle of the day. He gets so excited.
Yesterday we went to a playgroup with a bunch of moms & babies from our nursing group. The group (not La Leche League, a different nursing group) is run by a hospital & it's only meant for moms & babies under a year. When your kid turns one you "graduate" (get kicked out!). I think it's because the group is very large and the conference room they have it in is crowded, and they don't want siblings there so I think it's just to keep it from being totally chaotic (although they are usually 20-30 moms with babies from newborn to a year so that's pretty chaotic already), but I think it's pretty crappy. It think it sends a message that breastfeeding should stop at one & it's just stupid that you're in this group with all these people you've gotten to know so well & then you're banished! Anyway, we kind of started a tradition of the mom/baby "graduating" having a birthday playdate when they turn one so we went to one for the two kids turning one this week. Cooper was actually the second youngest baby there (I think one was 7 months); the oldest was about 15 months. We had lots of fun & we were both exhausted by the time it was over.




I had to include this picture too.. it's at home playing with dad. The picture isn't great (I think I was twisting my arm around & randomly pressing the button to get it), but the expression is awesome.

Wednesday, July 9, 2008

Out of the mouths (& from the hands) of babes

We can only be said to be alive in those moments when our hearts are conscious of our treasures. ~Thornton Wilder

Cooper has always loved breastfeeding; I guess that's kind of obvious from his size. We had a little difficulty in the beginning, but once he caught on (or "latched" on, you might say) he never quit. He likes to nurse for long periods of time (I'm talking over an hour & a half if I let him) & as often as possible. I can probably count the number of times he's refused an offer to nurse on one hand. Anyway, Cooper's always been very appreciative - he sometimes smiles when he's about to nurse or stops in the middle to smile at me, he moans or sighs (as if to say, oh, that's what I needed), and he often drifts off into a happy sleep. But this weekend when it was time for his morning nursing I sat in the chair & my mom laid him down in front of me & he actually laughed in anticipation! It was the cutest thing, except for what he did today. Today I put him down to nurse & while he was waiting for me to open up, he clapped! I actually got applause! I loved it.
It also reminded me that I have a lot of things to be thankful for (not necessarily in the order of importance):
  • Cooper, of course
  • John, my wonderful husband. He's my best friend & a great person, & even though there are a bunch of reasons why it makes sense for me to go back to work, it's as important to him as it is to me that I stay home with Cooper.
  • Being a stay-at-home mom & spending every second (almost literally) with Cooper. I often complain or get upset that we're broke & can't afford it & I don't know how we're going to pay the bills, but I know things will work out & I really should just appreciate the fact that I'm here with Coop.
  • My family - I could write posts for days on why
  • Cooper's health. We had a terrifying start when he was born with him going to the NICU unexpectedly & then the doctors telling us he might need surgery, but he only had to spend 36 hours there & completely recovered.
  • All the Marines, Army, Navy, Air Force, & National Guard men and women serving our country
  • Justin has been safe & healthy & will be coming home soon
  • Our dogs, Dora & Audrey. I love them even though they annoy me (& pee in our living room! on the new carpet! while we're trying to sell the house!) & I'm so glad both of them adopted us. I'm also thankful for my parents dogs (Audrey's family), Annie, Butch, Scout, Peach, & Max, & the fact that they're going to stay safe at home with them.
  • Breastfeeding. We've had almost every problem I've heard of, including problems getting Cooper to latch in the beginning (the NICU filled him up with formula & I needed to use nipple shells), getting him to latch correctly, yeast infection/thrush twice, clogged ducts constantly, mastitis, cracked nipples, & (currently) a milk blister that just won't quit, just off the top of my head. But, I'm so glad I'm breastfeeding. I really don't think I would have survived his infancy without it - he was so colicky & didn't sleep at all & nursing was the only time I could stop the crying, get a little break, & make him happy. Plus, I've dropped down to a size 6 & I was a 16 before I got pregnant! I'd be proud of myself, but I really haven't done anything - I eat a lot of crap, I eat constantly, & chasing & carrying Cooper is the only exercise I get (although he's huge, so carrying him is a bit of a workout!).
  • Naps! in the crib! for more than 20 minutes! (this is a recent development)
  • Sno-cones & slurpees - they brighten any day
I'm sure there's tons more, but that's what's on my mind now. Thanks for reminding me Cooper!

Sunday, June 22, 2008

Impressive

My parents have been married 33 years as of Friday, 6/20. Congratulations!
(I stole your picture Mom!)


Here's a great news story about a woman in China breastfeeding 9 needy babies.
I don't know about the whole promotion thing, but this story is fascinating.